For me...No.

I am often told by people that I am not what I first appeared to be. A lot of people say that when they first me they are intimdated by me! Gosh knows why!

I've been told on several occasions that people view me as "rough" but find out later that I am far from that.

I know that I do guard myself religously when I meet new people. And I don't give all of myself right away.

I have days where I am satisfied with my appreance. And I have days where I think I am fat and ugly. Satisfcation generally outweighs dissatisfaction.

As I get older I try to take better care of myself and do things which make me feel pretty and feminine. Some may see it as vain but I now like to go out with my hair looking nice and with eye make-up on. I wear clothes that flatter my figure which I would say is fuller and voluptuous, but also make me feel pretty or sexy.

I guess at the end of the day as long as you are happy with who you are and what you look like.....thats all the matters. F*ck everyone else. We are all individual and thats how it should be!