I think sometimes the trick is finding the positive. There is always something good, something to cherish. It's very hard sometimes to find that - and I appreciate my life has been pretty easy so it might sound like I"m talking out of my arse here. But we can get stuck in negative thinking - always seeing the bad, always obsessing about what we don't have, always wishing things were different. Carry on like that and you don't see the good at all.

Your focus right now is the child you don't have; the cycles that have failed.... I can't say that being positive will change this - it might not - but it can change the way you see your life and your situation. What's good in your life? What are you thankful for?

I do agree, in general, that the mind-body link is strong and our state of mind can certainly affect our physical experiences. But it's more about perspective and vision, than actually forcing something to happen.
I totally agree with all of this. Well said MB.

I find that if I am around positive people, I can get to be in a positive place easier. I've hidden notorious negative posters on my FB. I try really really hard to look on the bright side and think that things will be okay. Sometimes it fails me. The last three months have been very hard, with the first trimester miscarriage risks constantly on my mind and DH's business being incredibly quiet and for us that means no income. But I still try to keep my chin up. I've fallen into slumps before and found it hard to climb out of and it really took DH to tell me that I always looked at a half empty glass before I realised he was right. We've taken a battering of bad things over the past few years and it does take an enormous toll, but I really try to believe that things can be fixed, things will be better and I've been dealing with things a lot easier than I had previously.