I see "bad mother" threads and expect they've fed their child arsenic by mistake or let a little one fall into the pool and not notice... but no, it's for doing things I do every day! Or even just once a month. But it's always for things I do/have done.

I don't post on those threads because I don't want to highlight how awful I am for having a shower leaving DS with the TV, for letting him whinge at Nursery (with people he loves) because I'm late for the work that keeps him fed and homed, for letting him eat Weetabix, for letting my mum have him for a few days, for being crabby with no sleep... I'm not a bad mother, I'm a FANTASTIC mother and a human. That and virtual slapping "bad mothers" isn't as satisfying as doing it in reality.