all round please...and osmeone crack open a bottle cause so much of what is being discussed by you all can so be related to parts of my screwed up family and upbringing.

Know what I hate the most.....that the PA people in my family have done nothing wrong...everyone else is to blame for their words and actions.

this thread and another started yesterday have opened some deep wound's with me....there not ones I talk about freely....only a selected few know and its getting harder to deal with

I am over BULLIES!!!!! PAP are just that for me

again lovely ladies.