Rouge: totally nothing wrong with being neurotic! LOL If you didn't have neuroticism (hmm, my spell check isn't identifying that word) you wouldn't have half the interesting (and usually creative) people in this world! Think Tim Burton, think half the world's poets, artists and songwriters (Morrisey is a great example)! Maybe I/he/we still judge people harshly but we channel it in a more positive creative manner. So maybe instead of b*tching about your co-worker maybe people should write poems about them instead hehe!