That's an awesome perspective Kazbah and I think that is so true.

I hate scandal. Blurgh. I want to jump on it with my big big boots.

Maz your post reminds me of a wonderful saying I read on the very first parenting forum I was a part of. "Never post in anger. Step away from the keyboard and come back when you are feeling better" or something like that. I wonder if more people did this it would make it easier on all of us.