I've been away for a bit and am glad I missed this. It is a shame when people want support and get alternative views, just as when people want alternative views they can get nowt but love. It's the difficulty of on-line relationships. Now for the conga line...

*sings* Chocolate cake and vodKA! Chocolate cake and vodka! Nah nah nah nah - DRINK! Nah nah nah nah - DRINK!