I think it's always always important to share opinions. I think it's important to listen, I think it's important to use compassion. However, to sit on the fence might be an opinion too!

I understand LZ what you are saying. However, letting it go and saying no firmly... No, I am not interested in that method - it does not fit my ethos or my values - thankyou for sharing it though...

You have stated your strength and rejected what they want to impart... That is all good and well and healthy.