I really think the best way to work out if #4 should be considered is to do a pros and cons sheet. Write down why you should/shouldnt have another...and get DH to do the same. i know Dh said no more...but see if he can do reasons why u should.
The minute DD1 was born... we TTC straight away...hence the 10 month gap in my 2 girls!
I guess if you dont have 4 u will always be thinking bout it. Dh and i have talked kids...i said 4 he said 6. But now we have 2 we have said 3 will def be the minimum....and possibly a 4th.
At the end of the day our decision comes down soley to finances.
Good luck...i know ive not helped...but its something only you and DH can decided on!
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