Thanks for your advice and I agree......if it is just the sleepless night then that will pass and we'll have our darling children forever. Number 3 has been such a dream baby that maybe he'll come round at some stage. For some reason, he's so hooked on the cost of bringing the children up and honestly, he's on a damn good wage!! I'm sure we'd cope, with sacrifices.

How has it been for you having a girl after 3 boys? I don't know how we'd cope with a boy after 3 girls!! And to tell you the truth, that would be the one thing that would stop me going back for a 4th. I'm so happy to only have girls!

Thanks again, MW. x