Mayaness - WOW - I did have a giggle about her not being "told" when you go into labour. NM was really put out when I told her we wouldn't be telling ANYONE when I went into labour with DD. She thought it was selfish of me to not tell my family. Even when I told her that my conx started at 5min apart lasting over a minute she STILL thought I should have called her to tell her "it was all happening" ........ Even when I asked her WHO was suppose to be calling her A) her labouring daughter who was freaking out , or B) her SIL who was busy driving and supporting his wife ??

You almost need to just sit back and laugh and HOW important they must need to feel,afterall they ARE the centre of the known Universe!