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What a tough time you're having. You know, if your relationship ends, you can do it on your own with your DD. Yes, it will be tough, but you will be so much happier. It sounds as though you do a hell of a lot anyway.

And if you do decide to leave, or decide with your husband that you're going to separate, then really be sure of what you are entitled to. I see no reason you need to go out and buy all new household items etc. At the very least you should be able share what you have already in your house. At the very least. And don't short change yourself thinking it will be easier (or whatever) to just leave stuff behind and start again - IT WON'T BE. You take what is yours, and what you're entitled to.

So yeah, if you do decide to leave, then make sure you have spoken to someone in family law to find out exactly what you're entitled to. And you never know, some counselling may help to salvage things for you