Oh hugs- TTC is tough. Batteling wieght loss is tough and psoriasis is tough. i only have very milk psoriasis but its in my family and my mum has it as do many other women in the family.

IMO- this pull towards TTC is something you seem to be longing for. have you considered taking a step back from everything. and prioritising what you long for most. For me weight has always been an issue. I have always struggled to keep my weight down. i put on 30 kgs wit my 1st and 19 with my 2nd (and that was trying not to put on anything)

If you REALLY want that baby then i'd say forget the weightloss (deal with it later) the psoraisis... Hmm tough no real controlling of it (from my experience) All i know is mine flairs up bit time when i am stressed. which means being stressed will mean more flare ups.

I think maybe DF needs a bit if time. maybe speak with him about how your feeling. i know when we were TTC our last that DP felt bad when things werent happening.

GL with your decision. take your time and make sure its what your and Df are BOTH happy with...