Don't worry Ryn, i'm not offended - that was sort of my initial reaction as well, then i put in in perspective and got over it but the last few days it's been haunting me! I have to give them credit, the last time we were there i was only 10 weeks pregnant and a lot may have changed. But i really seriously doubt it and that's why i've been paranoid. We will barely get to make it up there so as long as i make my own strict rules for where he can sit and play, it should be ok.

I think i'm more worried of offending them, i mean i don't think it's an unreasonable ask to have a suitably clean environment for a little tacker, it's just that they're so lovely and i don't want to upset them or have them hate me either...