Divvy, I'm with you on it being too early to introduce someone else if its not going to be permanent.

My ex did the exact same thing, he wanted us to get back together, and after 3 months when I finally said its not going to happen, no chance, he had a new gf within a week, and they moved in together not long afterwards. He's the type of person that 'needs' to be with someone else.

Anyway, I said straight out, who is she and whats going on. I told him I wasn't cool with the whole thing cause I think its such a huge life change for the kids when the parents seperate and I think suddenly seeing mum or dad with someone else. I know you can't stop it happeneing, but I tried to explain to my ex that I didn't mind that she was around (I was the same as you, someone new meant he'd leave me alone) but to introduce her as a friend and for a while infront of Ashlea keep the whole 'relationship' part seperate

As some of you know on here, the new gf turned out to be a crazy psycho jealous freak that has caused so so many problems between me, Ashlea and her dad, and theres not a thing you can do about it

The best you can do it talk to your ex about it, just explain that the kids said he has a female friend over, and thatyour happy for him, but that its a big think for the kids to understand and accept and to make it easier on the children, would be mind infront of the kids keeping up the 'friends' thing for a while until everyone knows each other better etc. He'll either tell you its none of your business, or tell you she's just a friend or tell you he's seeing someone, but trust me, it gets complicated no matter how much you try and keep it simple, so try from the start to be open and honest and just talk to him

Oh, and cross your fingers and toes and legs and arms and anything else you can cross that he hasn't found someone like the crazy B@*!& my ex did!

Let us know how things go Divvy