Divvy, I think that wating to meet her is normal, you want to know the kind of poeple around your children. I absolutely flipped out the first time Ashlea told me that Jenna took her to the park while daddy has a sleep. I couldnt stand the idea of Ashlea being left with her, and as much as i know i can't stop it, you want to be able to!

Maybe say to him that your happy to agree to being open an honest about other partners, eg you'd let him know if your seeing soemone else and vice vera so that you can both be open and honest and talk if something is affecting the kids.