Oh i think all MILs are the same!!! No youre not a b*tch.. its your baby!!

Im the same.. i have total confidence in my mum (who also lives over an hour away) but not my MIL. We know what our mums are like and how they treated us so we know they will look after our babies with as much love.. MILs we dont.. I know with mine even if Jesse was asleep she'd wake him up on purpose (she tries to when she comes over and i have to tell her to leave him alone!).

Just tell her thankyou, if i need you ill call.. then dont call. If she says why havent you.. just tell her up front im not comfortable leaving her yet.. if she says why did you leave her with your mum, say cos shes MY mum!