See we are a bit the opposite now. It used to be that way for us. "oh can i look after kameron etc" to which i would say no for the same reason as Sushee, he was exclusively breastfed and at that time I had a crappy expresser as well so struggled to get Expressed BM for him till I got another a few months in.

Now that we have 3 kids.... Nobody offers to baby sit. If we do get offers it is for one kid only so we says "how is that giving us a break" as they want to take the fully independent, toilet trained, can do things for himself child. Well we have 2 like that now, but Lachlan still needs assistance with getting on and off the toilet.

If we do need to go out without kids (rarely), I thankfully have mum who will come to our house and look after everyone for us.

Love