Honey Im so very sorry.

1st off, can I suggest you have someone at the birth, for the reasons you have stated.

2ndly, if you are worried about DP and his shall we say lack of responsibility and maturity, console a lawyer and question it about having it put in your will that baby goes to whoever, due to the exact reasons stipulated, and see what they say!

3rdly good luck sweetie and if you wanna talk I am here for you as Im sure all the BB girls would be.

Hugh massive hugs for you, sorry little icons didnt work-bugger.xx