Well done Divvy, sounds like its' working out well, how are the boys coping with it????

I know a lady whom had a baby & she had him for the first 3 years (no contact with the Dad at all), then sent him to live with his Dad for 3 yrs & refused to have any contact with him til the 3 yrs was up..... It was absolutely mind boggling.... I really do not suggest it as the poor boy had no idea who anyone was... Infact I'd just plain call it cruel, he's now 14 or 15 & has no really relationship with either parent, just lives in a house with a person til they are sick of him....