Div, i agree... wish they would just get on with life, like we're trying to do!!

Well, i have chucked XH out of the house, he was meant to be living at his dad, but everyday found a reason to stay here. So he's only allowed over here in the afternoon, has to leave as soon as the kids are in bed. (by 8pm) That gives me time to jump on BB and relax before anneliese wakes for her 10/11pm feed, then off to sleep. Got a good routine down pat now