Don't be sorry for me - you're not doing it for me, chicky. I'm just in your cheer squad! You answer only to yourself and the kids in the end, no apologies are necessary anywhere else.
No-one could want to stay in the situation you are in, so it's up to you to get the wheels into motion. Do you know how much it sux that I can't just go in there and say "she's kicking you out, thanks very much for getting yourself out and sorting out the divorce in a civil fashion"? But that's the way it is - you have so much power, but for now you are choosing not to use it - find it and use it, if that's what you want to do
It IS frustrating that you keep taking him back, but I'm not going to leave you in the cold and stop talking to you! You'll just have to put up with me repeating myself!
You're a great single parent, too - you do what other women would shudder to think about, and you do it very well. I know it's no walk in the park, so to you and the other girlies here, and