Ahhh! That is SO frustrating . What is it about in-laws? We battled for a long time with MIL about feeding DS1 lollies and lemonade as a baby then toddler. She would actually do it behind our backs. What did we do? To this day she has NEVER babysat our kids, DS1 is nearly 5!

We don't care if she is offended, if she can't respect our wishes (she has been told NUMEROUS times) then she can't be trusted to look after our kids.

I don't know Dee, maybe just bring up your concerns if she wants to look after your DS again?

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