i desperately wanted a third and straight after 2 girls was read to try again. DH was dead against the idea. We got passed the baby stage and the girls grew up so lovely (of course ) but DH was always "happy with the two healthy ones we've got". 6 yrs later he realizes I always wanted a boy and he was the one who robbed me of the chance. So he says "ok, lets go for it then" so there will be an 8 yr gap between 2 and 3.I was so sure he would never want another that i had convinced myself i just had to be ok with 2 as well.

anyway. nothing like your situation, but wanted to put it in just to let you know that feelings may change down the track... you just dont know.