We had agreed initially to have one.

Then we had DD and I was lying in the birth suite with her in my arms and I looked at him and told him I was ready to go again We were blessed with a baby who was calm and easygoing from day one which also helped with the decision to have more.

Took me six months to bring him around, we got pregnant but unfortunately had a miscarriage. Due to other things going on we waited another six months and then got pregnant again.

DS didn't sleep for 18 months. We went through hell. We both swore we were done and would never tempt fate again.

DS is now 2.5, sleeping through the night for some months now. And I'm clucky. DH says NO WAY.

We'll see

I think it's an ongoing negotiation and as someone else said feelings can change from month to month, year to year. You don't have to make a decision now.