Oh way back at the start it all changed. I think about 6 months into the relationship. I was only 17 then though & had no clue.
Took me years to realise there was more to abuse than just hurting someone physically. I think only about 3 or 4 years ago, after reading a DV website.

I still can't understand the selfishness I still struggle every day with the way my life has turned out because of him.