Do people really say some of those things?
I've had every one of these said to me. And yes I did choose to be upset by some of the comments...and I OWN that choice because for someone not to be upset by many of the comments I've received they'd have to have a rhino skin. Thank you so much for posting this. I had the choice of bf taken away from me (although I did choose not to use a milk bank). It will always be a sore point for me. I've accepted it but it is still a sore point.

I would really like a similar list from the bf pint of view ie things that shouldn't be said to bf mothers. I'm sure they get a lot too.

Wysiwyg- great suggestion for the list of things TO say to a ff mum. I'll start it off - say nothing unless it's brought up by the ff mum! easy! Hehe

At the end of the day, a baby is being fed. The way some people have spoken to me about ff you would think they believed starving them is better.