As others have said already, I think it's about really being there for your child, both physically and emotionally, whenever they need you.

Listening to your child, knowing them and being responsive to their needs. Like the boss who says 'My door is always open', then walks off to his office, closes the door and insists you make an appointment at a time that is convenient to him, some parents seem to set limits on their availability.

I agree that no parent should be a martyr - we all need time out and rest. but that's where support networks come in, to help us continue in the best interests of our children.*-/---