We carry our tiny little bundles for a long 9 months and often wonder what they look like and can`t wait to see them, hold them,theres nothing more special than looking into your bubs eyes and giving them a cuddle or two ,or rocking them gently to sleep,we all have our own ideas and methods that work for us,but having no eye to eye contact is so very text bookish to me...... only my opinion though. I personally love to sing very quietly to my little bub,he loves it.A happy baby is a very happy mummy, lol.