I didn't want to start a new thread, so I'll dump this here... Trying to make it fit

I know it's not my place at all, and it's probably such a small thing to her, but I just spotted one of my FB "friends" (3 days post-baby) asking how long it'll take for her milk to dry up, and whether there was anything she could do to help it go faster... I'm really fighting myself to not say anything. I think it's because the other night (baby's first) she posted something about how she needed to feed him and was getting agitated because she couldn't get up to get him. She said something about how b/fing makes her feel good - not those words, but that sentiment - and now she wants her milk to dry up? I'm just confused. Yes, her decision, and heaven forbid I spark up another debate, but gaaaahhhh! What changed? Was this her plan from the start? If so, why say how much she enjoys b/fing? Why am I so concerned about it when I never see her anyway?!?