Wow Teni that doesn't make much sense - I can see why you would be upset and wondering why she would do this, and if she was someone you were closer to you could possibly send a message and ask if everything was ok and offer some help. I guess you could if you wanted to - just a subtle -"oh I saw your status about xyz jut hoping everything is ok" then you might get her asking for help IYKWIM.

Bec -that is really tough hun, to me that is a big difference to CIO etc because there are clear guidelines and recommendations for this sort of stuff and can cause huge problems for bub, even the box says not before 4 mths. (Yes i know CIO can cause problems but the line is a bit different) I would find it really hard not to message her and say not to give the rice cereal because of "link to recommendations" and offer some other advice. If you do it gently and in the best interest of the baby that surely wouldn't go down too badly Hard one.