How can we get him to self-settle?

[Arimeh]

Haha I don't know if anyone can help my boy. I'm ok with him waking up in the middle of the night and climbing into bed with us... but that PLUS the difficulty getting him to sleep is starting to do my head in....

[bubno.3]

is he being a bit naughty with the whole bedroom thing? As you may have to start with the whole Super Nanny tactics in 'its night time and that means sleep and then everytime he comes out ... the first time you say its night time sweet love you see you in the morning AND the second third and fourth time you dont say a thing and just keep putting him back into bed' I have done this with my ds who is 10 yr now but it worked and he learnt that once mum (it was only me back then) or dad puts me to bed that is it sleep time !