I think we practice gentle parenting but I'm not sure because we don't really follow any specific policy about anything really. I'm sure some aspects of our approach would fit in though.
I just do what seems to work best and make sense, which happens to be breast on demand & the general belief that you can't spoil a little baby - it's just not possible because they just naturally trust you to take care of them and their needs are simple, love and milk and a clean bum and being comfortable and sleep and not getting bored and being safe.
I don't deliberately share my bed with the kids, I prefer them in their own bed, but when they're little I often fall asleep myself whilst breastfeeding in the night, so I will often wake up with a baby next to me. I find having them in my room makes sense for as long as they're needing to be fed overnight.
I have read some books which I bought when pregnant with my first child, and found that my favourites which I always go back to are those that offer common sense based on experience and don't dictate.
I do find that most of what I read that's labelled "gentle parenting" or "attachment parenting" reminds me of the ideas in a very old book written in the 70s by an anthropologist, Jean Leidloff called The Continuum Concept. Not that it dictates any particular behaviour or that I'd follow any of what she's observed literally, but it's a favourite book of mine which I've read again with each pregnancy and I'd have to say it influences me a lot.
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