I read in a gentle parenting book recently that meal times is NOT the time to get all strict and put up a fight - because then it just ends up being a power struggle. And no-one wants that with a 2.5yr old!

I guess I'm lucky because DD#1 has always been a really good eater - loves veggies, loves salad etc.

I like Nelle's idea of dinner at lunch!

Youre doing a great job hope you find something that works for you & your family

ETA - I think consistency really is the key - he will keep testing the boundaries till he knows there is a clear & consistent line. That clear consistent line is what gives them security and confidence!