Hi Ren,

seems like most of us are in agreement, How you raise you kids is your business and noone elses. I personally dont co sleep eitherjust from fear of rolling on my bubs, and other issues but there issues within myself... I personally dont have an issue with other doing it and would certainly not judge anyone who chose to or is doing it... There are so many things Mothers are judged on... My MIL never breast fed any of her 2 boys. She's always asking my DP "is Jessica still breastfeeding?"

My DS is having some minor speach issues and we are working on it with him, she critisized us the other day about "getting him the help he needs" i couldnt contain myself.. I just let her know that we were working on it as i have told her before and that if other would talk to him properly he's learn alot quicker... (she's constantly using the same words he does and not correcting him)

Being a Mother is hard work and everyone does things different, if everyone learned to accept others parenting techniques and choices i thin kalot of mums would be less stressed out....

Sometimes even confronting some women just doesnt work i have found. some time you can say things over and over again and they still dont get the hint... I have just learned to brush it off as i know i do what i can and do my best if others dont approve or disagess then tough...

Your sound like a great mum and person... be strong and know you're a Fantasic mum. Just need to have confidence and assurance... and so many women on here have given you that assurance...