think I have to work through some fears though, so not sure whether to let you guys help me sort that out, or to find someone down here to work through them. I think its more that I know its bloody painful, whereas before I had Eden, I was ok with the pain cos I never really understood how bloody painful it was gonna be.. LOL
How about you do both huni. We are all hear for you but some one on one support would be good for you too! Maybe the best advice is to try to focus on the pregnancy now and worry about labour later?? Also try to express your excitment over having another newborn to cuddle everytime a fear about birth comes up??

Not great on psycho babble sorry but ill try to help!!!