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I just wanna know what I'm doing wrong to not be going into labour....
you are doing nothing wrong gorgeous woman! i can't comment on the perspective of a "post-dater" but seriously babe, your bubbas want to have that extra time with you xx have you tried 'talking' to your little one and telling them how beautiful they are and how beautiful it is to be born? i did this with Marta. a bit of background: i was having a rather horrendous time with my mum (she was at ours to look after DD1 while i was in labour but is from interstate so was there a couple of weeks before Marta arrived...) and i remember that i had stalled an earlier attempt by marta to come. i was so fraught and hung up on it all being 'perfect' (perfect birthing space, emotional charge of the house etc etc) that i *think* i kinda scared her off and made her (marta that is lol) think that mebbe ol' womb was a better place to hang for awhile lol. in the end i just apologised in a way to her one night in the shower and told her that i love her and that it is ok and that our birth journey will be awesome and full of love and that she is welcome despite my mood that i will love and fiercely protect her come what may. i dont know if she got any of that but man it made me feel better bahahaha!

Meow: so cool to see you in here babe! i was hanging out at this new cafe i found and they have a big orange wall and i thought of you