But the whole putting them on the defensive - it is our own emotions that do that. It's known that when we feel threatened or cornered we become defensive. I don't think that article attacks formula feeders, rather the companies that make them, the lack of support, education etc. I had an induction and an epidural, and even as a Birth Attendant, I don't look back on that and feel defensive and that I put my baby at risk and I was weak. I think, I was in a tough situation, perhaps I was not as informed as I would have liked, but I did the best I could in the situation that was presented to me in a moment of weakness and lack of support. I do not dwell that there was a risk I could have had a stillbirth as a result or other things - what happened happened, and I am just pleased that now I am much more informed and will do things differently next time. Sure there will probably be things happen that I don't expect and just because I am informed it wont make things run any smoother or perfect, but I know I will deal with it better and make sure I have good support to help me through.
WoOoO hooOO Sushee!!! It's great when they open up about things isn't it? Not that she has to agree, but at least keep an open mind.
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