Honestly Deeanne, you are damned if you do & damned if you dont as far as critisism goes....

I don't demand feed & have a system that works for myself & bub. Despite the fact that each week he puts on phenominal amounts of weight & is a healthy & very happy boy I still get comments from every direction from MIL/FIL/Mum/Dad/Sister/SIL etc, etc.....

Please just look into your own heart & do what you know is right for your little man.... in the end that is all that matters If demand feeding is what works then do it to your hearts content!