i totally agree aswell, i had my first at 18, married at 20, second at 21 and now i'm almost 24 and planning a third. my husband and i have the best possible relationship, we love and adore our kids and are very responsible with money ect and that doesn't seem good enough for some people, i find though i get judged the most for being a stay at home mum, i haven't worked since i was 30 weeks pregnant with my first and people cant believe that. i constantly say i'll go back to work once i have finished my family and the kids are all at school and that is what people turn there noses down to. its like they think i have had kids just so i can sit at home all day! everyone is entitled to their own opinion but i just couldn't leave my darlings. i have learnt after five years to not take any notice of negative comments and only listen to the ones that love and support you. i'm dam proud of what i have!