I Have to say to all the young mothers that if you can rise to the occasion of raising a child you have already proven yourself. My cousin was 15 when she got preganant. She is lucky because she is in a great family that has been very supportive. For her it was actually a blessing as it got her away from a group of people that were leading her astray. She is a great mother.

I thinkit is rude for anyone to ask the question was it an accident, One of my co-workers is 28 with her first and she was asked if it was planned or accidental.

I will be telling people fairly shortly, and will face some similar questions. I only got married in October and coneived about 5 days later, so everyone is going to assume a shotgun wedding.

But I don't care.