i am getting this more and more at the moment! I am not particually young (24) but my and DP havent been together that long. Which i guess makes people wrongly assume that bubs was an accident. We told some "close friends" of ours not long ago - and you know what she said?? "so are we all supposed to be happy about this" !!?!?!?!?!? Are you kidding me?? We are having a baby! Of course you are supposed to be happy, and how dare you ask that! Now I am hearing people say that they think i "trapped" DP by getting pregnant! If only they knew! I just want to SCREAM!

OUR BABY WAS PLANNED - SO MUCH SO THAT WE HAD FERTILITY TREATMENT TO GET PREGNANT - AND YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE?? IT WAS DP'S IDEA! SO THERE!!

Sorry... I just had to get that out!!! i even had the guy at the take away show that i go to - say " i was so sorry for you when i found out.. was it too late?" GRRRRRRR

People make me sooooo angry!!