I wouldnt say that I am young...but I am not old either IYKWIM but I was shocked at how many people thought it was their business to know if it was planned or an accident!

How rude! I am not talking family or close family here, I am talking random friends, work colleagues, strangers.

I think it is the height of rudeness to ask someone that question and I was so offended when they asked me. What is important is that you are having a baby, you are happy and they should be supportive of your happiness and be excited that a new baby is being brought into the world.