I can certainly empathise with this thread.

It annoys me when people think of my children as "mistakes". One so called friend found himself on the receiving end of an abrupt exit when he called DS2 "Baby Booboo". DH and I were not trying, but were not doing anything to prevent a baby either, knowing full well she was an obvious result of our actions.

The one that ****ed me off the most was the Doctor when I went to confirm my 4th pregnancy.

"What, Again???"

What I have found, the best way to approach telling people so they KNOW exactly what to say when you have broken the news is you phrase it something like this. "I have some wonderful news. DH and I are expecting a(nother) baby".

They have absolutely NO doubt about how you feel about it then. If they still come out with the petty "Oh, I'm sorry" - the simplest and easiest reply is "Why? I'm not"