Broken hearted and not sure what to do

[appletree]

Huge hugs Shan, what a difficult thing to come to grips with. I have a friend who went through something similar with her partner who she met on a dating website, it was almost like he was addicted to them and couldn't let them go!

Think long and hard about whether you want to be in this situation and if he is ever really going to change. Try not to take it as something that you have done wrong, this is his issue and more than likely has nothing to do with you or who you are.

I hope some other ladies have some good advice for you!

[Lilliansmummy]

thanks appletree. He said last time he doesnt really know why he does it and he just gets bored while im at school (im a full time student)
Im just really wondering if i have to give him a good kick up the arse or not..... just so confused

[Kazbah]

Shan - if he's getting bored, what does he do usually while you're at school?

[misty]

thanks appletree. He said last time he doesnt really know why he does it and he just gets bored while im at school (im a full time student)
Im just really wondering if i have to give him a good kick up the arse or not..... just so confused

Absolute codswallop! If he gets bored, he can take up a hobby, an activity, a sport, a job, hell pull out the playstation - you don't get online and sign up for an online dating site!

[appletree]

thanks appletree. He said last time he doesnt really know why he does it and he just gets bored while im at school (im a full time student)
Im just really wondering if i have to give him a good kick up the arse or not..... just so confused

Hmmm, being bored isn't a good enough excuse to break your heart like this IMO! Get that man working hard so he has no time to be bored, even if its not paid work he could be doing something that is useful and helping others. I always like to think 'if my daughters partner was doing this to her, how would i feel?'