Hi Shan, first up - good luck tomorrow if you're testing!

It looks like you've tried talking to him, but I wonder if you've seen "rules for fair fighting" which has great info on how to have a meaningful discussion which doesn't turn into a fight. Some of the basics are - use "I" sentences and don't accuse. EG : When I see you on these sites, I feel that I am not enough for you... Or maybe just ask if he's interested in ways to spice up the bedroom?

It's not easy, I've been cheated on before and its very difficult to trust again