At least I know that it is not just me though it is scary to think that it won't end! Maybe I will just move far far away!!! I think the worst thing is that DH will stand up to his Mum when he is there and tell her to get lost but I find it difficult to stand up to any of them especially on subjects where DH & I are gray. I don't want to go out guns blazing on an issue when DH and I haven't discussed it thoroughly first - we'd come out looking like idiots! I am going to have to stand up for myself and it looks like I will when it comes to selling this house. Wish me luck...