No, she's not my sister . . .

[Indadhanu]

I hear you, I'm 22 (so sstill pretty young) but look a bit younger, and I get THE LOOK. When we are out with SIL people ask HER all the questions (and much to my annoyance she starts to answer like shes the mum... but thats a WHOLE other thread...!).

Wish people would grow up, even if we were 13 it would be none of their business. Who can tell who is a good parent by judging their age (and TBH, I don't think a good parent should models judgemental behaviour, so there we go... *thumbs down* to them if they are parents).

I also hate how it changes when they realise Jazz was planned. Like that should matter... loads of people who are in their late 20s and 30s have an 'oops' all the time... and THEY don't get the look (unless of course they have 3+ kids, and then they are judged also, which isn't right ).

ETA: Jodie... yes I get 'are you babysitting', I've also gotten 'its so nice that you care for her like shes yours...' once when Shel and I were out shopping... They must have heard me refer to Shel as 'mummy' and then ASSUMED... hope they saw me stick her on my boob