I have said to people before that you can never judge a book by it's cover when they have told me I am too young for kids. I have asked them how old they thought I was and been told a few years younger and then turned around and said something along the lines of 'I was married when I conceived my oldest and Sure the baby bonus does help, it improves their quality of life by helping us to get rid of some debts, but that is not why we have children.'