yeah i know family seem to be the worse for it mine were like that a well someone told me i should get rid o my youngest if i ask for someone to babysit if it more than once in a blue moon i get "well you chose to have 3" so i dont even want to know what they are going to say about the next one hehe I think they either do it coz theyre jealous or theyre worried but dont know how to show it and some are just really unsupportive....i guess its a good thing i didnt have a life to start with. im married and weve been together for 6 yrs too so i dont know why ppl cant let us live how we want to and in my case have as many as we want. iv wanted heaps of kids since before the baby bonus and would still want them if it was gone.